It’s hard to take a honest look at your self and do course corrections. I really have some areas that are strong, knowing where I want to go with the house, gardens, transportion, etc. But when it come to things that really matter, lifestyle, health, and spiritual, I have some glaring weaknesses. I have been very lucky in the health area, the way I have learned to cook and eat is to say the least bad. I have a opportunity to change the way I live my life. Thats not to say I have a bad life, I have a great life, a great relationship, a great place to live, we have everything coming in to place for the way we want our lives, but I have a very weak foundation. Gloria has been through things I can’t imagine going through and she has come out a very strong person. I have a lot I can learn from my partner.